Life with Depression
It’s normal to experience things like sadness, disappointment, exhaustion, or grief. Most people will notice that their mood goes through occasional ups-and-downs in response to everyday challenges. This is just part of being human.
But, Depression is something VERY different and can have a devastating impact on your life.
Depression can seriously impact the way you think and feel as well as the way you interact with others and how you go about living your life. It is unlikely that you are going to “snap out of” depression.
If left untreated, it can become a chronic problem that you are left dealing with for the rest of your life.
YOU ARE NOT ALONE IN YOUR DEPRESSION
Depression can make you feel like you are all alone in your suffering - but thankfully, you are not alone.
You may have found that when you are depressed, it is hard to talk to others about the difficult thoughts and feelings you are having. But there are some things you need to know about living with depression.
It’s so important to understand that depression is very treatable in a number of different ways. The earlier the treatment begins, the more effective it can be.
The main characteristics of Depression (also referred to as Major Depression, Major Depressive Disorder or Clinical Depression) include:
Sometimes you will experience days where your mood lightens or you are able to enjoy your normal pursuits. Unfortunately, these days are probably not very frequent if your Depression is left untreated.
Someone who is experiencing depression may also see a range of additional symptoms, including:
In children, depression can also present itself as significant irritability and difficulty gaining weight. The irritability can actually be more prominent than the low mood. A high level of anxiety might also be apparent.
Depression can be a single episode or recurring. It is frequently interrelated with anxiety, stress, and medical conditions such as diabetes, cancer, and heart disease. Depression can make these worse, and vice versa.
THE TOLL OF DEPRESSION ON YOUR LIFE
Depression doesn’t just rob you of the ability to pursue your passions. It also limits your ability to be fully connected with the important people in your life. It can impact how you participate in normal self-care routines. It can even take away your freedom to think and feel the usual range of emotions.
It can even feel like depression takes away your ability to fight back and regain a sense of control over your life.
Whether you are an adult, teen, or child living with depression, it can seem as if you have no energy left in you to fight. Even worse, it can feel as if there is no point in trying. You might find yourself thinking that even if there is help out there, it won’t be able to help YOU. Depression can rob you of your will to do anything about being depressed.
The thing is - none of what depression tells you or makes you feel is true. Now more than ever, there are effective treatments available.
The first step to fighting back is to understand what is really going on in your brain and body.
THE CAUSES OF DEPRESSION
For decades, television and print advertising were incessantly beating the drum that depression was the result of a “chemical imbalance.” There had also been the belief that depression was “anger turned inward.” Overwhelmingly, researchers have shown these theories to be baseless, but still, they linger on in our culture.
Thankfully, these days we have a better understanding of the actual roots of depression.
The most up-to-date research on depression strongly suggests there is no one particular cause. It can result from the interactions of genetic, biological, environmental, psychological, social, and lifestyle factors.
Like most mental health concerns, there is no blood test for depression. It is assessed by carefully evaluating a person’s thoughts, emotions, behaviors, physical experiences, and environment.
Certain factors can increase someone’s likelihood of feeling depressed, some include:
TREATMENTS OPTIONS FOR DEPRESSION
The most common treatments for depression are therapy and medication. Research has shown that a combination of these two approaches is more likely to be effective than doing one or the other alone.
While research has shown that therapy and medication are about equally effective as a short-term treatment for depression….there are very notable differences between the two approaches.
There are occasions when someone does not respond favorably to any of the available therapies or medications for depression. In these instances, brain stimulation treatments are used as a last resort.
MY TREATMENT APPROACH FOR DEPRESSION
One of the most effective treatments for depression is known as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (or CBT). This type of therapy focuses on helping you learn how to approach your thoughts and actions in different and healthier ways. Through developing a variety of skills and coping strategies, you’ll be able to rediscover the joy in your life.
In a safe and non-judgmental environment, we will discuss your experiences and struggles with depression. We’ll also collaborate on steps you can take to increase your activity level, nurture and take better care of yourself, reconnect with the important people in your life, and change what you do when depression threatens to take hold of you again.
You will become armed with powerful techniques and develop the ability to defeat depression through the actions you take.
COMMON QUESTIONS ABOUT DEPRESSION
A FINAL WORD ON DEPRESSION
Depression can make you feel hopeless and believe that nothing you do will be able to make your life better. The truth about depression is that there are skills, strategies, and techniques that can help. We can work together towards reclaiming your life and finding the satisfaction you deserve.